How to give Mizuko memorial service
Mizuko Memorial Service
Mizuko means a fetus that has died by miscarriage, stillbirth or abortion.
Expected mothers’ deep grief due to the loss of an important life of fetus who has been nurtured carefully in her body should be immeasurable.
It is so important and precious to hold proper Mizuko memorial service for the poor life that has not been born and nestled in the arms of the parents, and for its reborn in the future.
And continuing to give Mizuko service will also save the deep damaged heart of parents who have lost their beloved children.
Way for Mizuko memorial service
There are number of ways for Mizuko memorial service. Those are roughly as followings:
- Perform a memorial service at temples.
- Perform a memorial service on your own at home.
- Perform a memorial service on internet.
Whatever you choose, important thing is the mind of offering memorial service.
Mizuko memorial service will not end if you offer it once. It is important to pray for happiness of Mizuko daily or whenever you remember it at a casual time. In that time, it is important to convey your mind that “I am fine, no need to concern me” not in negative feeling but in positive. It is also important to talk to Mizuko clearly.
Sweets and flowers that children may like are good for offering to Mizuko.
Typical Buddhist memorial services for an adult such as Funeral and Shijukunichi are not necessary for Mizuko. Funeral is intended to guide the soul of the dead adult to paradise (heaven). Because the soul of adult is polluted by various anxieties and lingering to this world make difficult to go to heaven. Therefore, all relatives and acquaintances gather, perform funerals and other ceremonies so pray for the dead to reach heaven in peace.
Such ceremonies have no need for Mizuko to reach heaven since the soul of Mizuko is not contaminated with earthy desires like an adult’s soul has.
Mizuko memorial service is to convey how much the parents loved and loved Mizuko.
It is important to pray for the happiness of Mizuko in a positive mind and never forget.
We handle supplies for Mizuko memorial service.
For Jizo stature, the guardian deity of children, available from small sizes good for place at home. Also available: Ihai for remember Mizuko ever, Daimon ball recommend to people who would not like to be known by anyone. Please use them.